Here are some basic points hot to make your loved ones cool when she/he is in anger at you... 1. Talk with her about the matter what she/he likes the most out of you. 2. Give to her/him a small gift what she/he told you the most liked thing for her/him. 3. Do a small and warm hug. 4. Take her/him to a dinner outside or you cook some dinner as a surprise and give it to her/him (It should be eatable and tasty ... keep in mind...!) 5. Never talk about the reason why you both fought ... At one stage, she/he will lean on you and ask sorry for that fight... 6. Learn from your fight and try to avoid the same in future.